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Managing Me

Managing My Mouth

Bishop Terry L. Hill, Jr.Sunday, October 11, 20269am
📖 James 3:1-12
In this final week of the "Managing Me" series, we were called to take stewardship of our words through James 3:1–12. The message challenged us to see that spiritual maturity is revealed in the ability to control what we say, because the tongue—though small—sets direction like a bit in a horse’s mouth or a rudder on a ship, and it can also do real damage like a spark that starts a forest fire. We were warned that our words don’t just describe our lives; they help direct and shape them, and car…
Key Points
1.
Managing ourselves starts with recognizing we are managers, not owners; God owns us and sets the rules for how we speak.
2.
A mark of spiritual maturity is learning to control the tongue; if we can manage our mouths, we can manage other areas of life.
3.
Our words can direct and damage our lives, so we must not underestimate “small” statements and their impact.
4.
No one can tame the tongue without divine help; we need the Holy Spirit’s self-control and the wisdom to practice silence.
5.
What comes out of our mouths reveals what’s in our hearts and minds; praising God and cursing people is inconsistency.

From the Series

Managing Me

📖 James 3:1-12
[1] My brethren, be not many masters, knowing that we shall receive the greater condemnation. [2] For in many things we offend all. If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body. [3] Behold, we put bits in the horses’ mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body. [4] Behold also the ships, which though they be so great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the governor listeth. [5] Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth! [6] And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell. [7] For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind: [8] But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. [9] Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God. [10] Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be. [11] Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter? [12] Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh.
Sermon Summary

In this final week of the "Managing Me" series, we were called to take stewardship of our words through James 3:1–12. The message challenged us to see that spiritual maturity is revealed in the ability to control what we say, because the tongue—though small—sets direction like a bit in a horse’s mouth or a rudder on a ship, and it can also do real damage like a spark that starts a forest fire.

We were warned that our words don’t just describe our lives; they help direct and shape them, and careless speech can destroy trust, relationships, and reputations. Because no one can tame the tongue without divine help, we were urged to depend on the Holy Spirit for self-control and to embrace the stewardship of silence.

Finally, we were confronted with the inconsistency of praising God while speaking negatively about people made in God’s image. What comes out of our mouths exposes what’s feeding our hearts and minds, so we were invited to ask God to guard our lips and to practice a concrete response this week: for the next seven days, say nothing negative and ask God for a better way to say what needs to be said.

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